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How to talk to strange men?

How to talk to strange men? - The modern woman of today has no need, addressed by men and being hassled to - she takes the reins into her own hands and take the initiative! Those who have the courage to summon to address strangers, is probably still in front of a big question mark: "What should I say? How do I talk to him the most? I will brush-off "

In this article we want to go to the bottom of these issues start with the question that frightens many women's greatest fear?.

I be rebuffed

If you look even before the actual flirting? the response of the chosen man, that you worry about whether and how you arrive, then this affects you and you will indeed negatively insecure, uncertain and ultimately unattractive

A confident woman will wake more interest than a gray mouse.. - this stereotype you surely know it by heart

The answer is easy way!: You can only brush-off, when you and your opponent will not have points of contact, so if you are "abstoßt" as two negatively charged magnets proverbial.

is repulsive to a man many things: obesity, dishonesty, boredom, stupidity - but also the exact opposite: Pronounced drought, directness, too much action, genius.

It always comes down to how the man is "biased" as mentioned in the magnet. You know the saying, which helps you in most cases to flirting success: "Opposites attract."

PS: As we said in our last survey (see Which character men attractive? have found out), men are already in "normal", that is balanced and sociable women.

PPS: If you have big problems with the first step, we encourage you to read our related article - get to know Despite shyness men

As I speak to him the most?

are best with words, because only relatively unambiguous words. A seductive look can be misinterpreted, an "accidental" touch at a party too intrusive and confusing!

The first movement is the most difficult - but you can even for this first step the difficulty reduce significantly, if you observe a few simple rules :

1. opposites attract.


2. Smalltalk Use only if you have no clues about the interests of your potential love interests. Small talk topics are: weather, politics, job & career, etc.


3. Even strangers men radiate information that you can use for your call. For example, at a party: Does he drink a certain beer? Do you recognize him as an athlete? He waits out to dance with you?


4. collect the more information you can before you venture the first step, the greater your chances of success.


5. Caution: Before you have your love interests "stalker", you should make you aware that a healthy degree of spontaneity also well received and can contribute a "seemingly all-knowing" woman at the first meeting rather intimidating.

special tip: have to understand body language and apply

At the beginning of our article says we that spoken words are the best way to men as tempting to say - we want the already advanced women, however, a more Method to his heart lay: the body language.

With the body language, gestures, Facial expressions, etc., can also send messages to the man - sometimes more effectively than with spoken words! Flirt With this technology, it is important that we (women) know exactly what to do. Who is

namely uses the standard in today's society gestures wrong (cold shoulder, "Bad Boy, etc.), but little success with the Flirting without words have.

Fortunately, there are a number of textbooks, which tells you as an enlightened woman on her way to flirt professional as you body language learn to master - particularly noteworthy is the book body language by Gregor Adamczyk .

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